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Stay at home dads and the movie The Incredibles 2: a missed opportunity

(warning: minor movie spoiler alert) As a working mom physician with a husband who is a stay at home dad, I was intrigued by the opening premise of the movie The Incredibles 2. Helen (Elastigirl) is tapped to return to work as a Superhero over her husband, Bob (Mr. Incredible). I looked forward to seeing…

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Working moms who are doctors: how many are there in the U.S.? The number will surprise you.

Did any of you other physician working moms out there get the dreaded made-at-school mother’s day card this year? You know, the one your kid makes in class, where they trace a flower (or some variation), and on each petal writes a word to describe you, their cherished mother? Why does the sight of this…

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Episode 3: The Prior Authorization Games: Where the Odds are Never in Your Favor

Post updated 3/13/19 Welcome to Episode 3 of The Prior Authorization Games:   Where the Odds are Never in Your Favor. In which I chronicle more examples of how to fight insurance company denial of services. My latest and most flabbergasting interactions with the insurance companies when requesting “prior authorization” for necessary medical care for my…

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Cancer survivorship symposium 2018: 8 key updates

Updated 03/14/2019 In my first year of oncology fellowship, our program director asked us an eye-opening question:  what percentage of people with cancer survived 5 years or more? At that time, in 2003, the little-known answer was 60%. Fewer than half of us fellows, physicians in a subspecialty training program to devote our careers to…

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Adjuvant chemotherapy: Why did my doctor tell me that I need chemotherapy after surgery?

post updated 3/15/19 Adjuvant chemotherapy, what is it? This comprehensive post will break it down for you, with an easy to understand example included. One of the most common questions I hear as a medical oncologist from my patients at an initial visit is: “My surgeon told me she got all the cancer.  So why…

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Episode 2: The Prior Authorization Games: Where the Odds are Never in Your Favor

Post updated 1/20/19 Fighting insurance company denial of prior authorizations Greetings Readers.  I thought I would try something new and start somewhat of a series.  If you didn’t see my original post on prior authorizations, this link will take you right to it. Last week I found myself on the phone, yet again arguing on…

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Parenting stereotypes, and turning them on their head. “My mom is a doctor, my dad is a dad.”

“My mom is a doctor, my dad is a dad.” So stated one of our children in their autobiography assignment for school. I read on, curious what would come next. “My dad usually stays home and cleans up, and takes care of the pets.” I thought for a moment.  “That’s very good, honey, but do…

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The Puzzle Table

The Art of Oncology I am pleased to share the link to my newest published narrative essay, entitled The Puzzle Table, published online 10/2/17 in the Art of Oncology section of the Journal of Clinical Oncology. Update March 2018:  Now listen to the podcast on the JCO Art of Oncology Cancer Stories page. find links…

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Mom guilt and the physician mom: Doing Enough; not Perfection

Recently, I was enjoying a “mom day” running errands with the kids. You know, the usual essentials — groceries, school supplies, and espresso coffee drive-through. At this last stop, the barista made small talk and, seeing the kids in the back seat,  joked about school starting soon and how I must be looking forward to…

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